Originally posted by hall4
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I'm a very reasonable person and don't want to do anyone out of money but also don't want to be stuck footing reparation bills for damage they did. Also the wardrobe was damaged and carpet badly soiled. Can I charge her for this even without photo evidence? I know they don't have evidence on the contrary.
The civil court judges a case on a 'balance of probabilities'. This means that your case must convince the court that you're at least 51% more likely to be telling the truth, based on the evidence. Ideally, you have before and after inventory reports (i.e. strong evidence) but it's still possible to win based on less strong evidence, especially if you come across as an honest, reasonable person, both on paper and in person, i.e. the court is more likely to believe what you say.
I don't think that, in your position, without 'strong' evidence, that I'd start a claim against the lodger. I would wait and see whether she claims against you (because, quite possibly, she won't - but she has six years at least in which to do so). And if she does, I'd defend it with a counterclaim. I'd also make sure that I'd sent at least two or three letters to the lodger clearly detailing the reasons for withholding the deposit.
Alongside the advisability of keeping written records/creating a paper trail, one principle you should abide by is to behave reasonably at all times; bear this in mind whenever you write to or have contact with the lodger, because your actions/reasonableness may be examined in court - and the court frowns upon unreasonableness. You say you are a reasonable person, and from what you've told us I believe you - so there is a fair chance the court will believe you, too. But you can't count on it, which is why I wouldn't advise starting a claim against the lodger.
Having said all that, if you want a quiet life, just return the deposit to the lodger and move on. A court case will take at least six months from start to finish and, although I personally think it's a good learning experience, you may prefer to defer the learning, accept that you made a few mistakes, accept your losses, and do things better with the next lodger.
P.S. if you do end up in court, buy or borrow from the library a book on the small claims procedure.
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