hello
i live in a 4 bedroom rented house that had a really good landlord until a week ago. when i moved into the property it was agreed that as i have 7 children things my become accidently damaged and that we would replace anything broken or go to him and pay to have damaged things fixed. however on my recent inspection, which was 48hr notices as apose to his usual notice of 1 week, he has decided that the minor damage to the doors (i have brought new doors and was in the process of fitting them) is total lack of respect for the property and when i said i have the doors and am fitting them them i could no longer be seen as a low risk tenant.
two days later he asked for a meeting with me and my wife during which he began to shout about disrespting my landlord and my
contractual obligation to respect him and his property. i tried to exsplain that i respect both him and the property and thats why i am fixing the doors. this i was told dosnt matter the fact that i disrespted his property in the first place was for him the line in the sand. he slammed a 4 month notice down on the side and said get out!! there was no resoning with him i offered monthly inspections and inspections once any work had been completed but no luck so i said ok we will move but he has now said i am not legally allowed to fix any issues we have created and he will contact my guarentor for payment of any works needing completing when we leave.
i walked away from the conversation as him slamming the notice down got me a tad wound up and i didnt want to give him an excuse by arguing back. he the preceeded to offer my wife a referance if she devored me and the potential to move back into this property if she divored me. but the creepy part is that he hugged my wife and forced her arms to hug him back. he also offered words of wisdom like keep your car keys close to hand so that she can leave when ever she needs, he also offered to sort her out a brilliant devorce lawyer also remember he is only a phone call away if she needs anything. he also suggested that he has been in a relationship like ours and i wont know what i have until she leaves.
im not sure what this dougebag thinks he knows but is that not a bit inaproprate? or am i getting pissed at nothing? he has only met me and my wife a handful of times so im not really sure how he has me all figured out.
is there anyone to talk to for legal advice on this? does this not change his interest from buisness to personal?
i would be thankful for any advice as this has really wound me up but i dont want to confront him and give him an excuse to call the police claiming threatening behaviour.
thank you
i live in a 4 bedroom rented house that had a really good landlord until a week ago. when i moved into the property it was agreed that as i have 7 children things my become accidently damaged and that we would replace anything broken or go to him and pay to have damaged things fixed. however on my recent inspection, which was 48hr notices as apose to his usual notice of 1 week, he has decided that the minor damage to the doors (i have brought new doors and was in the process of fitting them) is total lack of respect for the property and when i said i have the doors and am fitting them them i could no longer be seen as a low risk tenant.
two days later he asked for a meeting with me and my wife during which he began to shout about disrespting my landlord and my
contractual obligation to respect him and his property. i tried to exsplain that i respect both him and the property and thats why i am fixing the doors. this i was told dosnt matter the fact that i disrespted his property in the first place was for him the line in the sand. he slammed a 4 month notice down on the side and said get out!! there was no resoning with him i offered monthly inspections and inspections once any work had been completed but no luck so i said ok we will move but he has now said i am not legally allowed to fix any issues we have created and he will contact my guarentor for payment of any works needing completing when we leave.
i walked away from the conversation as him slamming the notice down got me a tad wound up and i didnt want to give him an excuse by arguing back. he the preceeded to offer my wife a referance if she devored me and the potential to move back into this property if she divored me. but the creepy part is that he hugged my wife and forced her arms to hug him back. he also offered words of wisdom like keep your car keys close to hand so that she can leave when ever she needs, he also offered to sort her out a brilliant devorce lawyer also remember he is only a phone call away if she needs anything. he also suggested that he has been in a relationship like ours and i wont know what i have until she leaves.
im not sure what this dougebag thinks he knows but is that not a bit inaproprate? or am i getting pissed at nothing? he has only met me and my wife a handful of times so im not really sure how he has me all figured out.
is there anyone to talk to for legal advice on this? does this not change his interest from buisness to personal?
i would be thankful for any advice as this has really wound me up but i dont want to confront him and give him an excuse to call the police claiming threatening behaviour.
thank you
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